sibling-care-summit
Get siblings onto one team about aging parents before the crisis does it for them — a structured family meeting with an agenda that prevents old-roles regression, a fair-not-equal division of care work (money, time, and proximity counted honestly), decision rules for when parents can't decide, and the written summary that prevents six months of 'nobody told me'. Use when someone says 'my siblings and I need to talk about mum', 'my brother does nothing', 'we keep fighting about dad's care', or before a parent's health forces it. Produces the summit agenda, the care-share worksheet, and the fami
Profile →npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill sibling-care-summit --agent claude-code
Same command for any agent — swap --agent for codex, cursor, copilot.
Weekly change comes from our own snapshots, not the repository page — it measures attention, not adoption.
# Sibling Care Summit Skill Parent-care conflict between siblings is rarely about the parent — it's about 1994. The sister who lives nearby slides into everything-by-default; the brother abroad sends money and gets called uninvolved; the family group chat holds three parallel arguments and zero decisions. The summit is the alternative: one structured conversation held *before* the crisis (or early in it), where the work is inventoried honestly, divided fairly — fair meaning proportional to real capacity, never split-equally-on-paper — and written down, because unwritten care agreements dissolve into the default sibling doing everything and resenting everyone. ## What This Skill Produces - A **summit agenda** (90 minutes, video counts): parents' current reality → what they want → the work inventory → the division → decision rules → the memo - The **care-share worksheet**: every recurring task with its real weekly cost in hours/money/emotional load, and the three currencies siblings can pay in — time, money, and coordination — counted as equally real - **Decision rules** written while everyone's calm: what needs all siblings, what the on-the-ground sibling just decides, what the pare
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What does the sibling-care-summit skill do?
Get siblings onto one team about aging parents before the crisis does it for them — a structured family meeting with an agenda that prevents old-roles regression, a fair-not-equal division of care work (money, time, and proximity counted honestly), decision rules for when parents can't decide, and the written summary that prevents six months of 'nobody told me'. Use when someone says 'my siblings and I need to talk about mum', 'my brother does nothing', 'we keep fighting about dad's care', or before a parent's health forces it. Produces the summit agenda, the care-share worksheet, and the fami
How do I install it?
Run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill sibling-care-summit --agent claude-code` — it drops the skill into your project so the agent can pick it up. Swap the --agent value for codex, cursor or copilot if you use one of those.
Where does this skill come from?
From mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills, a repository with 1,255 stars. We read it straight from the repository tree rather than a submitted listing, so what you see here is what is actually published.
Is a popular skill a good skill?
Not necessarily. Stars measure attention, not adoption — a repository can trend for a week and be abandoned. That is why we show the weekly change from our own snapshots next to the total, instead of a single flattering number.