end-of-life-wishes-conversation
Have the conversation about someone's end-of-life wishes — before a crisis forces it — gently, respectfully, and thoroughly enough to actually guide decisions later. Use when asked how do I talk about end-of-life wishes, discuss my parent's wishes, advance care planning conversation, or ask about their medical and final wishes. Produces a way to open this hard conversation without it feeling morbid or forced, the areas to cover (medical wishes, care preferences, where they want to be, what matters to them, practical/legal), how to listen rather than impose, and how to document and share what's
npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill end-of-life-wishes-conversation --agent claude-code
Same command for any agent — swap --agent for codex, cursor, copilot.
Weekly change comes from our own snapshots, not the repository page — it measures attention, not adoption.
# End-of-Life Wishes Conversation The conversation nobody wants to have is the one that, unhad, leaves families guessing and guilt-ridden during a crisis — making wrenching decisions with no idea what their loved one would have wanted. Having it *before* a crisis, gently and thoroughly, is one of the greatest gifts a family can give each other. This helps you open it without it feeling morbid, cover what matters, listen well, and capture the wishes so they can actually be honored. Not legal or medical advice. ## What This Skill Produces - **A gentle opening** — a way to start this conversation that doesn't feel morbid, forced, or like you're rushing them toward death (a news story, a form to fill, "I want to make sure we honor what you want") - **The areas to cover** — medical wishes (interventions, resuscitation, comfort vs. aggressive care), where they want to be cared for and to die, what quality of life means to them, spiritual/personal wishes, and the practical/legal pieces (documents, who decides) - **A listen-don't-impose stance** — how to draw out *their* wishes rather than project your own or steer them - **How to handle resistance** — if they don't want to talk about it,
- What This Skill Produces
- Required Inputs
- Framework: Open Gently, Listen, Capture
- Output Format
- Wishes conversation: with [who] · context [x]
- Quality Checks
- Anti-Patterns
- Example Trigger Phrases
What does the end-of-life-wishes-conversation skill do?
Have the conversation about someone's end-of-life wishes — before a crisis forces it — gently, respectfully, and thoroughly enough to actually guide decisions later. Use when asked how do I talk about end-of-life wishes, discuss my parent's wishes, advance care planning conversation, or ask about their medical and final wishes. Produces a way to open this hard conversation without it feeling morbid or forced, the areas to cover (medical wishes, care preferences, where they want to be, what matters to them, practical/legal), how to listen rather than impose, and how to document and share what's
How do I install it?
Run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill end-of-life-wishes-conversation --agent claude-code` — it drops the skill into your project so the agent can pick it up. Swap the --agent value for codex, cursor or copilot if you use one of those.
Where does this skill come from?
From mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills, a repository with 1,277 stars. We read it straight from the repository tree rather than a submitted listing, so what you see here is what is actually published.
Is a popular skill a good skill?
Not necessarily. Stars measure attention, not adoption — a repository can trend for a week and be abandoned. That is why we show the weekly change from our own snapshots next to the total, instead of a single flattering number.